Why did I want a natural birth?
Since I was young I’ve heard stories about procedures that women go through when they have a baby in a hospital. The very thought of having a needle stuck in my spine or having metal contraptions in and out of birthing canal was disturbing. The image I received from other women’s hospital experiences resembled more of an alien abduction scene. I just knew in my heart that there had to be a more natural way. I chose to have a natural birth so I could connect with the moment of bringing a new life into the world while remaining full aware and present. I wanted to remember that moment as a precious, safe, joyful, loving, and peaceful moment. I chose a water birth at the Madison Birth Center and I remember the moment exactly as I wanted!
What did I learn from the experience?
I learned that if I had confidence in myself, and that if I stopped resisting but relaxed into the moment I was capable of overcoming any bodily discomfort and know that my body will do as it should and my mind and soul could enjoy what was really happening. I try to live that way now- every moment in the present with my son. I value each moment with him and it’s been that way from the very moment I gave birth to him. Thanks to the many women I met at the Birth Center who helped build that confidence.
What it did for my baby?
I say that the first waking moments set the stage for the day to come. If I meditate, practice yoga, eat a healthy breakfast and nurture my soul then the rest of my day seems to follow in line with peace and mindfulness. I think the same goes for setting one’s self up in life with a nurtured birth. The birth sets the stage for the rest of the life to follow. My son entered a serene, exuberant, and loving room. He was able to receive a secure, warm and inviting embrace immediately after being born and my partner and I welcomed him with happiness and love into this beautiful world. His stage was set with peace, love and happiness.
How has it changed me as a person? My family? My perspective?
The hospital birthing process is seen as ‘normal’ for so many in our culture. Having a natural childbirth isn’t the route most people take, but, I know that it was the best for me, my partner and our son. Every time I look at our son I’m reminded to question conventional thought and follow my heart, intuition and the knowledge of old. My partner was able to be involved and share in the birthing experience and I believe we became a family at the moment our son was born. SInce that moment our love has only grown.
